Monday, April 6, 2026

On Packing Away My Mother’s Saris

What wisdom lies in those boxes

I can’t say. Stories folded into

Silks, sweat lining into the borders,

Witty repartee shining from gold

Thread and sharp orders printed

Into patterns, all this lies as much

In my fingers pleating new drapes,

Ankles skirting new edges, shoulder

Blades skimming new necklines. 

What wisdom then, in stacking and

Hoarding and packing. What strength lies 

In lifting each sari, feeling it

Against my face - the cottons the

Tussars, the embroidery, the lace -

I can’t say. Those boxes don’t store 

Away the rustle of her quick steps

But I can hear her on a good day -

The bustle and movement like

An outline of the house and us,

Stick figures, snug, fitted in. More

Than wisdom lies in those boxes, less

Than memory, something yet to wear.

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  1. Ah, Giti, a poem after my heart. More than wisdom, less than memory, yes!

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    1. Right? I started this one thinking I would find some wisdom in memory but that´s not where it went.

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  2. “I can hear her on a good day” - we do need to attune our inner ears to hearing all our mothers, then we might hope for the good days to be more frequent.
    Beautiful poem Giti. <3

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    1. Thank you, Jayasree. I always dream of mom as young and bustling. Strange how the image of her in her last 15 years seems not to be so stamped on my mind.

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  3. The image of your mother as "an outline of the house" is so evocative of the care and effort she must have put into managing it.

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    1. Thank you for noticing, Sameer! I had to stop and think how to convey this sense and when this image came to me it seemed weird but just right :D

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  4. Agree with Bhaswati.. I too am drawn to Ma and sari poems and this one is so beautiful too

    Those boxes don’t store

    Away the rustle of her quick steps

    Ah! So lovely

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    1. I remember your poem-burst about your mother, Charu. We are all daughters grieving and celebrating our mothers.

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    2. this is my favourite line also - that distinct rustling is such a huge part of the sensory experience of a sari and of the memory of a person who wore it

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  5. The repetition of the "I can't say"...ufff heartwrenching

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  6. Such a meditation, I can just feel your attention

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