Saturday, April 4, 2026

4. My Grandfather’s Hair

Ten years before my grandfather died,

He smelled like Brylcreem and Old Spice.

His hair was little more than a fringe around the ears,

Paler and finer than the hair that grew

Out of their orifices.

And yet, he smoothed it down

The way I do my tumbling curls.


He and I both know

The buzzing irritation of wispy hair in the noontime:

Like flies of one’s own making,

The strands stroke your cheeks

Making you cringe and recoil,

The memory curdling your blood for weeks.

 

When my hair is dirty, it flies everywhere,

Straining against my oily scalp,

Struggling to break free from my follicles,

The wispy filaments

Yearn to be free.

4 comments:

  1. Like the clinical description of hair
    And I recently found a green tub of Brylcreem in a small town in Kerala.. Pure nostalgia
    My father used to use both the brands you write of :-)

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    1. My grandfather was from Kerala too! I wonder what ad campaign popularised Brylcreem in that generation.

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  2. This brought to me the part of the family that were Old Spice and Brylcreem. I must admit that I did try the Brylcreem when I was in school, hoping I would be let off for some intransigent coils but that didn't go too well.
    Thank you for this.

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    1. Thank you for sharing that memory, Geethanjali! I don't think I ever tried Brylcreem myself, but a little hair gel is a must for me these days just to get my curls to look a little less flyaway.

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